She has them watch her masturbate

We have had our ups and downs like most couples. Now we are at the stage where I feel I want to give him back some of his rights in that area. He and I are very open about things and I know how important and healthy masturbation is for a relationship. We are rebuilding trust and it feels good, but he now wants to be able to watch porn again occasionally, and I have a problem with this. Just thinking about it makes my heart race and I freak out. People get concerned about porn for all sorts of reasons and the reason that it's troubling you is very common. Obviously he would then have a decision to make as to whether he can do without porn in his life.

Zack Sharf. We are peers. We are equals. He could offer me nothing. We were only just friends.

The idea of masturbating in front of someone else can, understandably, be a little bit daunting. It can make you feel vulnerable, and maybe even a little bit silly or shameful. But, there's nothing to be ashamed of - and it can also build intimacy and connection between you and a sexual partner.